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Friday, July 4, 2014

Giving an Enjoyable Spanking

Whether you are experienced or just starting, understanding and improving your adult spanking technique is an important facet of an enhanced spanking experience.

Secrets of an Enjoyable Spanking

Many people have never played, nor had the opportunity to watch experienced people play.  And perhaps a spouse or friend has expressed an interest.  Knowing how to proceed makes all the difference between a satisfying experience and and an ill-fated disappointment.  A good adult spanking takes about an hour, and by following the suggestions outlined, an inexperienced player can look like an old hand in making fantasy a reality, which is what this is all about.


Agree on safewords.   "Yellow" is a common word meaning the bottom is at the limit, and the impacts should be no harder nor come any faster.  "Red" means stop.   Choose whatever words you like, and remember that the bottom has a responsibility for communicating and the top for responding.

The open hand: 

When using the hand, it should be cupped slightly, with a small gap between the fingers.  Place the tip of the thumb against the knuckle of the first finger.  The hand should be firm, but not tight.   The wrist is kept straight, and the elbow is bent to adjust the distance.   Impacts come from the upper arm/shoulder, and are delivered straight on to the target.  This is the American style.  The European style delivers upwards and downwards arcing, glancing impacts.  They are hard to target and pull the skin.   The American style is more direct, and preferred by most bottoms.


The number of positions are limited only by imagination and common sense.  And the basic rule is "comfort is king!"  Tightly stretched positions (e.g. holding the ankles) should be used only for short periods.  The skin and underlying flesh is drawn tight, and not allowed to displace from the impact.  This leads to marking and bruising.  Other positions where the bottom's weight is carried by internal organs and the diaphragm (e.g. OTK using a chair) should also only be used for short periods.  A short period means no more than about 5 minutes.

When bent over, the angle formed between the thighs and back should not exceed 45 degrees.  The "on all fours" position is best when kneeling is done on knees and hands (with straight arms) and not knees and elbows.  Or kneeling mostly upright on the seat of a chair or sofa.   When standing the hands should be placed on a table or back of a chair to help support the weight downward.  A wall helps maintain balance, but will not provide support if "dancing" begins.  When lying down, pillows underneath the head, hips and ankles work wonders - it is far more comfortable than simply lying flat.  

The sofa or bed makes the most relaxing and enjoyable place for OTK.  The top should sit as far back as possible so the bottom is completely supported.  Placing a pillow under the bottom's head and ankles makes it even more comfortable.  When relaxed, the bottom finds it easier to go to the special place inside them (i.e. zoning, sub-zoning, flying).  The top's job is to get the bottom there, and once there they seem impervious to pain.  Do not strike harder or faster thinking they are asleep!  And do not keep them there too long.  An extended visit can result in a headache from the continued endorphin release in the brain.


Striking the same spot repeatedly is not preferred by many bottoms.  The area needs a short time to recover.  And striking above the tip of the tailbone is dangerous - the nerves exiting the base of the spine and the kidneys can easily be injured.  An easy way to prevent this during OTK is for the top to lightly place one hand on the bottom's lower back.  Extend the thumb so it touches the tip of the tailbone.  This protects the area from inadvertent misses, especially if the bottom wiggles or kicks.

Draw an imaginary line across the buttocks between the tip of the tailbone and the very top of the thigh.  Each cheek will be divided into a upper and lower section.  Strike in a rotating pattern - for example: upper left, lower right, upper right, lower left, and repeat.  Vary the pattern during play - at least once a minute.  Then divide each cheek into thirds, create a pattern, then vary it.

Occasionally during play, a single gentle strike on the top of the thigh can be added in.  This is a very sensitive area requiring reduced intensity.  And for maximum effect, no more than 3-4 times on each thigh during play.

Building the intensity: 

Role playing disciplinary spankings are applied at nearly full intensity with little or no warmup.  For sensual spankings, the intensity should be carefully increased.  There are several reasons for this.   The low beginning intensity enhances blood flow to the area which helps prevent marking and bruising when the intensity increases.  Also, when intensity is carefully increased during the stages of play, the bottom can take much higher levels than if not warmed up.  And this also helps build confidence and trust when playing with someone for the first time.

Intensity is built in steps, not a straight line.  Imagine an intensity scale of 1 to 10, where 1 is the lightest impact that can be felt and 10 is the hardest impact that can be tolerated.  Intensity is built from 1 to 2 to 3.  Then intensity is reduced back to 2, then increased from 2 to 3 to 4.  Then back to 3, then from 3 to 4 to 5, etc.  During the heart of the play, the intensity can vary from 5 to 10, with rate being a factor.  During cooldown, intensity is reduce back down in steps - 10 to 9 to 8, then 9 to 8 to 7, etc.


Role playing disciplinary spankings normally occur at a constant and brisk rate.  Sensual spankings generally start and end at very slow rates, with a number of rate changes adding to the sensation.  During warmup, the rate is slow.  Starting at about one impact every 2-3 seconds and increasing very gradually to about 1 per second.  A slow, steady rate is relaxing and comforting, and puts the bottom at ease.   Cooldown is the compliment - about 1 per second decreasing to once every 2-3 seconds.

During the heart of the play, maximum effect results when the pace varies slightly.  The anticipation of the impact is as intoxicating as the impact itself - varying the timing retains that anticipation.   Maintain a rate of about 1 per second, then gradually increase to about 2 per second.  Then gradually decrease to about 1 per second.  The whole cycle should take about a minute.  And an alert top will notice the bottom clenching in anticipation of the timing - skip a beat.

A few short bursts of about 4 impacts per second really heighten the heart of the play.  Coming without warning, the bursts should last about 10-15 seconds.  And they should happen no more than about 3 times.  And remember to follow the pattern and reduce the intensity about 2 levels.

The warmup: 

This is the most important part of sensual OTK play, and should take a full third of the time spent.  It sets the tone and calms a racing heart.  The top should position the bottom, and make them comfortable.  Begin by gently stroking the backs of the legs up to the top of the thighs, and the shoulders down to the base of the spine.  Repeat a few times until there is no muscle tightness or tension.

A good OTK session begins over the clothing, starting at a rate of about 3 per second and increasing to about 1 per second.   Intensity steps up from 1 to about 5.  At this point, the top layer of clothing is removed exposing the undergarments.  Doing this slowly heightens the anticipation.  With the undergarments exposed, repeat the warmup from the very beginning.  Do not skimp or rush - remember to always keep building the anticipation.   Near the end, pull back the undergarments to expose the cheeks.  The bottom may find this exciting, but the purpose is for the top to check the color.  It should be a very even light pink.  And this is a good time for a minute of gentle stroking.

A minute of impacts, then restore the undergarments snugly across the buttocks.  Then about another minute of play.   Ever so slowly, slide the undergarments down to just above the knees.  This is an extremely exciting time for the bottom, so slow patience is critical.  The bottom may arch up to assist, and the top should try to minimize this - better they remain relaxed and feel the sensation.  A minute a gentle stroking works wonders, but avoid squeezing.  Light fingertip touching on the pinkened area, backs of the legs, and shoulders.  Again, repeat the warmup from the very beginning.  Take your time, remembering to build the anticipation.

The heart of the play: 

This is a time of excitement and caution.  Build the intensity in steps, then vary the rate, adding in the short bursts.  After using the hand, this is the time for toys - all the techniques described under intensity and rate can be repeated using them as well.  Different toys provide different sensations.  Implements having a small contact surface area are generally "stingy," while those having a larger surface area are "thuddy."  Different shapes (e.g. oval) apply impact over different areas to vary the sensation.  Begin with thuddy toys moving toward stingy and back again.  Every bottom will have a preference.  If toys are used, 80% of bottoms prefer leather over wood.  Wood offers no forgiveness to match the contour of the body, and has a tendency to bruise.  Focus on the favorite sensation, but do not completely neglect the others - it adds contrast.  And this is the time to vary positions.  It provides further excitement for the bottom, and gives the top a chance to stretch and catch a breath.

A good top pays close attention during this time.  Hand spanking can leave small red speckles on the bottom - the intensity should be reduced and the rate increased.  And check that the palm remains slightly cupped.  And an alert top checks the side of the buttock furthest away several times during the play.  If toys are used, soft leather can wrap, leaving marks.   Dark red swirls or bright red / bluish outlines on the cheeks indicate the intensity is too high.  Either the toy is too heavy, too stiff, or is being used too hard.  The bottom cannot see their own buttocks, and the top is responsible.  It is better to go longer and lighter.  The color should be an even glowing crimson, with no mottling.

The cooldown: 

This is the best part, and well worth a quarter of the time spent - a time of gentle sighs and deep relaxation.  There is no substitute for the hand to cool down the bottom in a lying down OTK position.   Gradually step down the intensity and reduce the rate - do not hurry.  When at the lowest level, intermittent half-minute periods of gentle finger tip stroking and light massage, followed by slow and light impacts helps to maintain blood flow.  This reduces any marking or bruising that may appear later.  Continue the intermittent periods until all the color is nearly faded.

When the color is nearly gone, a few minutes of gentle stroking adds a nice finishing touch.  Then lotion or oil applied after warming in the palm - do not apply it cold.

Definitions of certain spanking-related words underlined above:

Bottom - The one receiving the spanking.

OTK - Over-the-Knee.  The basic spanking position for hand-spanking or with short toys.  Good on a sofa, but the "traditional" straight back chair puts a lot of pressure on the bottom's diaphragm.  

Play - The act of spanking.   And it should be good, satisfying and adventurous play.  It's called this for a reason!

Role Play - Where a fantasy scenario is played out.  Common roles are boss/employee, doctor/nurse, warden/prisoner, principal/student, etc.   Usually there is some imagined situation that one partner finds that enhances the satisfaction.  A good partner assumes the complimentary role to increase the partner's satisfaction.  Mostly for disciplinary play.  

Safeword - A word used by the bottom to indicate that they are near or at their maximum tolerance level.  It can be any word agreed upon before play - common ones are "yellow" indicating approaching maximum close to maximum (slow down) and "red" indicating stop. The words "don't" and "stop" are rarely used as they may be part of role-play dialog.

Thuddy - A dull, achy sensation much like a sore muscle, and generally the result of a heavy implement used at low velocity.

Top - The one giving the spanking; the spanker.

Toy - Another name for an implement (paddle, strap, cane, crop, etc.).

This post was complied from information on the now defunct Ecstasy Leathers website. 

Basic Spanking Guidelines

Following some basic guidelines can help provide a safe and sane adult spanking experience for everyone involved.  Please remember it's called play for a reason. 

Guidelines for Safe and Sane Play

  1.  Never play if you have been drinking alcohol.  It dulls the senses and impairs judgment.           
  2.  Never play with someone you don't feel completely safe with - trust your instincts.  "No" is an acceptable answer.  If NO is not respected, neither are you.  Stop immediately and leave.        
  3. Agree on safewords before playing.  Common words are "yellow, " meaning you're approaching your limit, and "red" means stop.  If safewords aren't respected, then you aren't either.  Stop immediately and leave. 
  4. The top is responsible for monitoring the bottom's condition.   If there are skin ruptures or bruising, it's time to stop no matter what the bottom thinks or wants.  Stop play and tend to the condition immediately. 
  5. Never strike above the tailbone.  Kidneys and the base of the spine are easily injured. 
  6. Never test a "new toy" on a partner.  Test it on a pillow or your hand first until you have command of it.  And never be a test subject.  Control and proficiency should be demonstrated to prevent injury.   
  7. If there is "wrapping," either change position or the toy.  Or take a break - wrapping can come from leaning  when the top is growing tired.  Some toys tend to wrap more than others - you should not use these until you can demonstrate control and proficiency.   
  8. If you bind wrists or ankles, there should be enough room to slip a finger in.  Watch for any evidence of the fingers or toes turning bluish.  Unfasten immediately. 
  9. Tops are not automatically Doms, nor are Doms automatically Tops.  Bottoms are not automatically subs, nor are subs automatically bottoms.  One is more mental and the other more physical.   Avoid disappointment by choosing the right kind of partner.          
  10. Use common sense.  It's called "play" for a reason. 

Definitions of certain spanking-related words and phrases underlined above:

Bottom - The one receiving the spanking. 

Play - The act of spanking.   And it should be good, satisfying and adventurous play.  It's called this for a reason! 

Safeword - A word used by the bottom to indicate that they are near or at their maximum tolerance level.  It can be any word agreed upon before play - common ones are "yellow" indicating approaching maximum close to maximum (slow down) and "red" indicating stop. The words "don't" and "stop" are rarely used as they may be part of role-play dialog. 

Top - The one giving the spanking; the spanker. 

Toy - Another name for an implement (paddle, strap, cane, crop, etc.). 

Wrapping - Normally a result of soft leather straps, paddles and tawses.  The end "wraps" around the bottom and leaves a dark red mark or bruise on the side of the hip.  Among experienced people, wrapping is the mark of a very inexperienced person (and an insult!).  Either they don't know the right length of toy to use in OTK, are getting tired after arduous play, or they lean if standing.    

This post was complied from information on the now defunct Ecstasy Leathers website.  

Sunday, June 22, 2014

Fanny Paddle


A Spanking-Stick for ALL Family Occasions

Especially made:

For noisy GUESTS

And folks that CUSS

For swatting PESTS

And banned word that FUSS

For taming BRIDES

And winning WAGERS

For tanning HIDES

Of "smart" TEEN-AGERS

For stopping HIC-CUPS

Fights - and SPATS

For puddling PUPS

And careless CATS

For mice and ANTS

On picnic TRIPS

For paddling PANTS

When baby DRIPS

For wives at NIGHT

When hubby's LATE

For counting RIGHT

On a birthday DATE!


USE at Your Own Risk!

Hair brush Poem


The hair brush, bare skin, doth impart
The most atrocious sort of smart
You grovel full of dread suspense
Waiting for it to commence

And suddenly a loud report
Of a sharp and wicked sort
Sets twenty thousand nerve ends blazing
In a matter most amazing

While full of horrified surprise
The second Red Hot Spank arrives
And one more awful tender spot
Is indescribably Hot

Your mind in panic and despair
Is sure it's more than you can bear
But you can very safely bet
You simply ain't felt nothing yet

Oodles more will be applied
Before Justice is satisfied
Smack, smack, smack and each well freighted
With punish unmitigated

The first cruel smart will not subside
Until about eight are applied
And then an awful, awful lot
Of naughty skin is awful Hot

And you can howl, yell and entreat
But it is kept at frenzied heat
That busy paddle seems to know
If any spot has ceased to glow

And back there, you've just lots and lots
Of awful tender, wincing spots
And the brush will smack every one
Many times before its done

It's awful to get two or three
In very close proximity
It's awful to fell fresh ones smart
On places rather far apart

And stray on firmly muscled thighs
Provoke most horrible surprise
High up where not padded so well
They are maddening as hell

But this sad fact is very true
On thicker padded portions too
The meanest kind, of all the lot
Seems always the kind you just got

Oh smack, smack, smack, so very heated
Stinging, smarting and repeated

~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

From Mr. Magazine (April 1972)
Letters to the Editor

Dear Sir: I'm sending you a spanking
poem that I thought you might like to
print in the Dear MR. Column.
M.R.F., Missouri

Saturday, June 21, 2014

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Friday, June 20, 2014

Naughty Boy's Spanking Prayer

Oh Father, let me please 
Lay myself across your knees 

Bottom up and undies down 
So you can spank me hard and sound 

Spank my bottom hot and red 
So I'll remember what you said 

And keep forever in my mind 
The lessons learned on my behind

Monday, June 16, 2014

Bad Ass Weekend - Augusta, Georgia - October 16-19, 2014

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Sunday, June 15, 2014

A Happy Father's Day

Happy Father's Day

Excerpt from Connecting with dad through the world of sports

Excerpt from Connecting with dad through the world of sports

Dads were a bit removed and distant, it seemed. A father's job was to be the breadwinner and do what was necessary to provide food, a roof over the heads, electricity, etc. Mom took care of the kids, did the cooking and cleaning. Dad was in charge of outside. Mom was in charge of inside. Mom spanked you first, but you lived in dread of when dad came home, because that spanking would be much worse.

Wednesday, June 11, 2014

Spanking Brett Favre

Brett Favre revealed in his November 1997 Playboy Interview that he was spanked by his dad. Here is an excerpt from the interview:

Playboy: Did you dream about Super Bowls as a boy?

Favre: My brothers and I did. Sundays we'd watch pro football on TV, then go out and pretend we were Archie Manning or Roger Staubach. My dad was the high school football and baseball coach. We'd go see his teams play, and those guys were my heroes. I saw the catcher adjusting his cup, so I'd reach down and play with my balls, too. I tried chewing tobacco, since Dad and all his players did it. I got sicker than dog shit. My little brother, though -- that son of a b**** could chew and spit when he was three years old.

Playboy: Did your dad punish you for it?

Favre: He's a tough guy, Irvin Favre. He looks like Sergeant Carter on "Gomer Pyle." But he let us sow our wild oats a little. When I dipped tobacco and threw up he said, "That'll teach you."

Playboy: Is it true you never cried when he spanked you?

Favre: My dad would whip my ass with anything from a yardstick to a black rubber hose. I deserved it. Once I shot one of my brothers with a BB gun. Then I hit him on the head with a brick. I hit the other brother with a baseball bat. It hurt, getting whipped, but I wasn't a crier. I faked it. I didn't want more spanking, so I would fake crying when my dad tore up my ass. Then he'd go away and I would laugh.

[I had a link to the interview but it is no longer valid.  Apparently, you have to subscribe to iPlayboy to get access to the interviews.]

Spanking the Mannings - Peyton, Eli and Cooper

Excerpt from Growing Up A Manning in Athlon Sports:

Indeed, the success of the Manning clan is rooted in family. That’s where lessons are taught and values are learned. “Growing up Manning” was a combination of moral principles, physical gifts and academic and athletic opportunities — along with a healthy dose of old-fashioned discipline — that helped make the Manning boys who they are today, as athletes and as people.

The Manning boys are extensions of their parents. Archie was the authoritative disciplinarian. Olivia was the good cop, the quiet, steady conscience of the family. From an early age, they instilled in their boy en the principles of work ethic, discipline, ambition, modesty and family they learned from their parents in rural Mississippi.

The Norman Rockwell image of the Manning family is not entirely accurate, the Mannings insist. The boys were far from perfect — typical teenagers, really. They had fake IDs, went to the French Quarter and were grounded when they broke curfew.

“We got in trouble, we got grounded and we got spanked — a lot,” Cooper says. “We fought. We fight today. It’s not this utopia people think. We’re normal people.”

Sunday, June 8, 2014

Growing Up Colt: Spanking Colt McCoy (College and Pro Quarterback)

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Chapter 3:  Getting with the Family Program


We believed that God designed the family and that children thrived best in an atmosphere of genuine love, undergirded by reasonable, consistent discipline.

Debra and I believed in spanking. Both of us had grown up with parents who meted out corporal punishment when the occasion warranted.  “Spare the rod and spoil the child” was their guiding philosophy, and that became ours as Colt and the boys came along.

Now, did we look for reasons to spank Colt, just to make sure he learned discipline by the seat of the pants? Of course not. 

We carefully considered the times when a spanking was appropriate because we believed that, when properly applied, loving discipline works.

Debra and I always believed that on those occasions when we spanked Colt, we were drawn even closer to him – and he to us – because we comforted him in his tears.  When the spanking was over, we reminded him that we loved him and that we wanted him to grow up to become the best he could be.

We saw the benefits of loving discipline in Colt’s attitude.

Colt didn’t get a lot of whuppings.  The times we had to discipline him were few and became rarer as he grew older.

Looking back, Debra and I are glad we administered loving discipline early in Colt’s life because relatively speaking, we sailed through his teen years.

You see, I saw the results of a lack of parental discipline every day on the practice field. 

Players broke team rules and school rules, so they were disciplined.

The San Saba story is one reason I always felt discipline was important for my football teams and for Colt and his brothers.


On this spanking thing, Mom and Dad may say I didn’t get spanked that much, and they’re probably right.  But when you’re a kid, it sure doesn’t seem that way.  I can remember both parents popping me on the bottom with a bare hand, Mom spanking me with a wooden spoon, or Dad spanking em with a belt.  If we were outside, Dad sometimes used a switch.

Here’s how I remember things:  if I mouthed off to Mom or showed disrespect, she’d warn me to watch it.  After the second warning – not the third or fourth – she’d march into the kitchen and grab the wooden spoon.  And I’d get a couple of good whacks on the behind.

I soon learned that if I ever upset Mom to the point that she’d spank me, more wrath was waiting for me when Dad got home.  Yes, I heard Mom say those dreaded words: “Wait until your father gets home.”  When I heard her say that, I knew I was in big trouble, and those afternoons never passed more slowly.

Dad would come home from practice, and after hearing Mom lay out the charges against me, he’d ask me if they were true.  I knew resistance was futile.  After I confessed my misdeeds, Dad would take me into my bedroom and spank me with the belt.

On one occasion, just after I started attending the University of Texas, he and I were asked to speak at a father-and-son gathering in Austin.
One of the things Dad discussed with the fathers in the room was the value of discipline and what it really means. Discipline is teaching.  It’s correcting.  It’s respect.  It’s all those things,” he said.  “Discipline is not going out there and beating your son whenever he does something wrong.  Sure, I disciplined Colt, but I didn’t just put the belt to him.”
I raised my hand.  “Hold on Dad.  I want to show everyone a verse in the Bible that you followed.”  “If you brought your Bible with you, turn to Proverbs 23:13.” I read it aloud: “Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you punish them with the rod, they will not die.”
Everyone in the crowd started laughing because they had caught on that my father wasn’t the type to withhold discipline from me, and that meant he did discipline me with a belt.  At the same time, everyone in the audience could see that I had not died.
I laughed right along with them.

But there was an occasion when I was spanked outside the home, and it wasn’t any laughing matter.  It happened when I was in the fourth grade at Hamlin Elementary School, where everyone knew each other.

My fourth-grade trash talk set him [Matt] off. There was a push and a shove – nothing beyond the usual roughhousing I did at home with my younger brothers – but then Matt fell and screamed out in pain.  He had broken his finger.  I don’t recall who pushed him to the floor, but I do remember that there were lots of tears.  A couple of teachers broke up the scuffle and demanded an explanation of what had happened.
Matt and I were sent to the principal’s office, but I wondered why I had to go.  It was Jimmy who had said that Matt couldn’t see his new basketball shoes.  I hadn’t started anything.
At least that’s how I saw things.  But I knew getting sent to the principal’s office was serious stuff, even if I was innocent.  I knew I would be in big trouble one Dad and Mom found out I was sent to the principal’s office, guilty or not.  Colt, you’re going to get the hugest spanking, and then you’re going to be grounded for life, I thought.

I couldn’t believe my good luck.  Since nothing happened to me in the principal’s office, I wouldn’t have to take a note home to Mom and Dad.  Maybe I wouldn’t be grounded for life after all. 
We drove home in silence.  I tried to keep my composure because I felt there was no way my father could know I was in the principal’s office just an hour before.
When we got home, Chance and Case were playing basketball in the backyard.  I was about to go outside when I heard Dad say, “Your mother and I would like to talk to you.”
Dad and Mom drew the story out of me, and I told it in the way I have described it in this chapter.  They listened and then Dad cleared his throat.
“Son, we treat everybody the right way around here.  It doesn’t matter if you like Matt or not.  You will treat him the right way, and you will show everyone respect.  That starts with your teachers but also includes your friends and people who are not even your friends.  You will show everyone respect.”
Mom added her two cents, and then my father solemnly announced that I would be punished for what happened.  A spanking with the belt. 
Dad whupped me pretty good that day, and I cried.

I went to school the next day thinking it was all over, but as soon as I stepped into the classroom, my teacher told me the principal wanted to see me in his office again.
My heart sank.  What did I do this time?
I soon found out.
The principal was waiting for me in his office with a leather strap, and he explained that I needed to be punished for my role in hurting Matt.  He gave me several licks, and I cried again.  Then he told me that I would have to apologize to everybody in my class, tell them I was wrong to play favorites and that in the future I would respect everyone the same.

By the way, it wasn’t until years later that I learned Dad and the principal were buddies and they both agreed that I would get some licks and home and at school.  But they taught me a lesson that I would never forget.


It may sound like we were too hard on Colt that day, or even like we were abusing him, but that’s far from the truth.  The fact is that Debra and I looked for those “teachable moments” that come up every now and then when you’re raising children. 

They learned that there were consequences when they crossed that line.  Sometimes it was the belt, but other times they lost privileges. 


By the time I got to school, I thought “shut up” and “stupid” were bad words.  I didn’t say them in the classroom, and I certainly didn’t say them around Mom and Dad because if I did, I got my mouth washed out with soap. 

“Stick out your tongue,” she’d say.  I’d always beg her not to do it, but she never backed down.  Once I stuck out my tongue, she would rub a wet bar of soap all across it.  Then I could wash out my mouth with water.  The soap tasted disgusting, and it made me angry the rest of the day. 

Saturday, June 7, 2014

Spanking Events - New Blog

Click HERE to link to the Spanking Events blog

Male/male (M/m) Spanking Parties and Events

Click on the links for details about the parties and events ...

Spanking Parties:

CA - Los Angeles: MoonBurn (1st Sat)

CA - San Francisco: SF Men's Spanking Party (2nd Sun)

DC - Washington: SpankDC (3rd Sat)

GA - Atlanta: ATL Male Spank (2nd Sat @ 1763)

GA - Atlanta: Guy Spank ATL (4th Sat @ M4U)

IL - Chicago: Chicago Spanking Party (varies)

NY - New York City: S.O.S. - Society of Spankers (4th Thu)

Spanking Events:

CA - North of SF: Camp Red Tails (mid-July)

GA - Augusta: Bad Ass Weekend (Oct)

Spanking Colby Keller

Spanking Colby Keller


Our favourite pornstar, with brains, muscles and a sense of humour, makes his Canadian debut at Toronto Pride

Colby Keller is quite possibly one of the hottest, smartest, cutest and most interesting pornstars on the planet. Not only does he know how to have great sex on camera, but he has a blog (bigshoediaries.blogspot.com) that follows his #selfie adventures around the US and a YouTube channel called In Bed with Colby Keller. Colby lover and gay blogger Sissydude spoke to him.

Sissydude: Hey, Colby, how are you?
Colby Keller: Wunderbar! Et toi, Sissydude?

I’m awesome. So, you’ll be in Toronto for Fit Primpin.’ Very exciting!
I’m seriously pumped. Moisturizing my spankin’ hand as we type.

Have you been to Toronto before?
Never! And I used to summer every year at Beach O’ Pines in Grand Bend. I have no excuse.

Well, you will “see penis.” Toronto’s CN Tower is super phallic. And it’s Pride Week. So you know there will be real peen everywhere.
Hopefully much of it inside my body at some point.

I know that you’re a major foodie. Toronto has tons of amazing restaurants. Be prepared!
I’ll remember to bring my jockstrap and my suspenders.

What will you be doing at Fit Primpin’?
Managing a small mom-and-pop spanking booth (minus the mom and double the pop, if you think your booty can handle it).

I hope we have a chance to meet while you’re in town.
Your butt. My hand. Let’s do it.

I’d be honoured! Thanks so much, Colby.