The reasons an adult "boy" wants or needs a spanking are quite varied but usually include one or more of the following:
- He is a masochist
- He has some sort of sexual desire for a spanking
- He enjoys the excitement of giving up control to another person
- He has deep rooted guilt that needs purging (usually over and over again)
- He wants to be punished for specific misdeeds to motivate himself to improve his behavior
- He wants to re-live his childhood experiences
- He wants to experience what he did not get as a child (like his childhood friends received)
- It is a macho thing - He wants to prove to himself that he can take it.
Do you feel a NEED to be spanked, or is it more of a DESIRE or CRAVING?
What is your reason? Is it one or more of the above or something else altogether?
What is your story? [In the words of Dr. Fraser Crane ... "I'm listening"]
Check out my detailed spanking profile at:
http://bhamspanking.blogspot.com/p/about-me-my-spanking-profile.html